Profil DonnaMother: Mother with Love for Children

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Jeg kan snakke Norsk
Jeg vil beskrive meg selv som Most men I've encountered want physical stats so I'll get that out of the way. I'm 5'11 tall, 280 lbs. (due to medications that cause me to plateau at this weight), apple shaped figure (most weight in torso and thighs), salt and pepper short hair (with curls), otherwise healthy.
Now, on to describe my character (what matters more to me in relationships): I have strong family values; I'm spiritual and have a close relationship to God (whatever that means to you is your business -- not one to criticize any one else's beliefs); I'm an individual with lots of opinions (but I don't like to debate them -- rather, prefer to discuss opinions and respect each other's points of view); hard worker with strong ethics, having had a long-standing career in Silicon Valley for the past 30 years; am very good with children and want a real family to support and nurture (doesn't matter if you have one child or thirty -- I have enough love and compassion and resourcefulness to manage any sized household, and want a man who believes in serving and protecting his children as I do).
Finally, let's talk about current life circumstances. I have a 7 year old daughter in foster care because I have always been a single mother and lost custody when I did not have a proper support structure to back me up and had to go to the hospital. I've tried fighting for custody on my own, but without help or a husband, the law was not on my side. Never have, or would, abuse or neglect a child, but in California -- where she is now -- we suffered a lot of trials and tribulations that in the end left my child without her real mother, and that's all she wants most in this world. So, that's why I'm here. While I was a single mom with her, I never felt the need to have a husband or other love relationship because she was (and still is) my world. However, I realize now that in order to adopt her and get her out of foster care, I must create a new family and seek custody with a man and very loving family on our side.
As to the type of man I am seeking? Well, he's got to be extremely kind, compassionate, passionate (not just as a lover but as a friend and about special interests that include family and special projects that may simply be hobbies), accepting (not just of what he cannot change, but accepting that life may hand you lemons sometimes, but that only means we have to create lemonade in difficult times), and be extremely honest and help build trust in a love relationship.)
What do I want to do for your children? Anything. I am open to homeschooling them, or going to work to send them to private schools. I can work from home with my skills so that they never have to be latch-key children or go to daycare. I've only used a baby sitter once in my time as a mother, and it was while I was working at home and supervised my child doing art with her. I believe in giving children ANYTHING they want that is GOOD for them to have and will spend all the money I have to do it. That said, this doesn't mean they become "spoiled" children because I teach them that "if I have the means to give you whatever you want, I will. But, if I don't, then you'll need to wait until I do." And children get this and understand it. If any of your children suffer from a physical disability, mental distress, emotional problems, or just need a mother who truly cares about them, I can assure you that I can help them overcome any of their problems. I have proven that as a mother to a child with ADD in a prior marriage -- my son in that marriage had a mother who wanted to put him on medications, and I can tell you all about how I used creativity to alleviate all this child's problems with bullying, academics, learning and getting to school on time.
Anyway, that's enough about me. This profile is sort of a prayer -- a message in a bottle sent your way, with the hopes that you will open the bottle, and discover that I may not be a "genie" but I can make children's dreams come true, and yours too!
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Utseende & Situasjon Hva er din nåværende situasjon? Beskriv ditt utseende.

My Kroppstype er Tyngre
Min høyde er 5 '11 (1,8 m)
Øynene mine er Hassel
Min etnisitet er kaukasisk, Spansk / latinsk
Min Sivilsituasjon er Skilt
Jeg har barn Ja - bor ikke hjemme
Jeg vil ha barn Ja
Min beste egenskap er Smil
Kropps kunst Arr, Vill ikke engang tenke på det
Mitt hår er Salt og pepper
Jeg har en eller flere av disse Hund
Villing til å flytte Ja

Status Hva gjør du?

Min Utdanningsnivå Er High School Diplom
Min nåværende arbeidssituasjon er Selvstendig næringsdrivende
Min spesialitet er Administrasjon / ledelse
Minn jobb tittel er Special Projects Facilitator
Jeg bor Med foreldre
Hjemme Alt er rolig

Personlighet Hvordan opptrer du? Hva er din smak?

Når jeg gikk på skolen, var jeg Hjerne
Min sosiale atferd er Reservert, Observant, Vennlig
Mine interesser og hobbier er Religion / livssyn, Familie, Restaurant, Fotografi, Lese, Kunst og Håndverk, Lære, Musikk, Filmer, Internett, Spill, Dansing, Teater, Reise, Lage mat, Hagearbeid, Kortspill, Kamping, Frivillig arbeid, Datamaskiner
Min idé av å ha det gøy er Være med venner, Være hjemme, Prøve nye ting, Kino, Slappe av, Lese en bok, Spille videospill, Gå på konsert, Gå på museum
En ideel første date vil være Anything that enables us to get to know each other really. I appreciate romance, but it's not essential to plan a great first date. In fact, there is less pressure if the approach is to discover how love and friendship go hand-in-hand.
Mine venner beskriver meg som Vennlig, En andre ønsker å være, Tullete

Visninger Syn på livet.

Min religion er Åndelig men ikke religiøs
Mitt mål i livet er I have A LOT of things on my "bucket list". Working on some of them now. Not as much "goals oriented" as "results oriented". Prefer to do, rather than talk about what I want to do. But, I can say that everything I'm doing is moving closer and closer toward adopting my child and getting her a dog to help with her separation anxiety.
Min humoristiske sans er Vennlig, Tullete

Leter etter Hva ser du etter i din sjelevenn?

Hva finner du attraktivt? vett, Spontanitet, Rariteter, Dristighet, Følsomhet, Empati, Gode ferdigheter, Humor, Omtanksfull, Intelligens
Hva ser du etter? Qualities that help define and shape one's character. How we do that depends on our life's circumstances. Appreciate everything that makes you unique and YOU. But, really searching for a soul mate who wants marriage and a great family lifestyle in the long run.
Hva slag forhold søker du? Venn, Forpliktet